1. give and take互諒互讓，互相讓步，互相遷就，互相妥協，互相忍讓；有商有量，妥協折衷
a willingness between two to understand each other, and to let each other have or do some of the things they want.
Both will have to learn to give and take. Let’s get better acquainted.
We must all give and take a little if we want peace.
We had to learn how to give and take, otherwise I think it might have been a very disastrous situation after four years.
You're going to have to learn to give and take.
Sometimes it’s a game of give and take.
In every friendship, there has to be some give and take.
除了在工作和社會中需要give and take，我覺得在婚姻中也非常的需要相互妥協，因為人無完人，咱也要學會接受對象的一切在家庭接受現實。時不時允許老公打個遊戲，時不時允許老婆買個高檔化妝品。
A willingness to give and take is important for success in marriage.
If you want you marriage life go smoothly and further, both partners must learn to give and take.
A happy marriage depends on not only love but also give and take, so make sure your relationship has room for give and take.
所以確保你們的關係有give and take的空間。
2. give or take,大概，大約，差不多，不相上下; 相差不到、出入至多；或多或少，上下浮動
give or take= more or less= plus or minus
It'll take about three weeks, give or take a day or so. 《牛津高階英漢雙解詞典》
Three thousand people came, give or take a few hundred.
This shirt costs £20, give or take.
It takes about five hours to get there, give or take
The building is 190 feet tall, give or take.
I'll be ready at 6:00, give or take a few minutes.
give or take還有一個含義，也很常用：
How's your new phone?
Yes, it's great, give or take a few minor problems.